The Tribe
A gentle 1-minute check

Am I lonely?

Loneliness is not a weakness or a failing. It is a signal, like hunger or tiredness, that a real human need is going unmet. This is a private, one-minute reflection to help you notice where you are right now. It is based on a short set of questions used widely in research, and it is not a diagnosis.

Nothing you choose is sent anywhere or saved. It stays in your browser, just for you.

1. How often do you feel that you lack companionship?
2. How often do you feel left out?
3. How often do you feel isolated from others?

This reflection uses the three-item loneliness scale used widely in research. It is a gentle prompt, not a medical assessment or diagnosis. If loneliness is weighing heavily on you, or pulling you somewhere dark, please talk to your doctor or a local support line. You deserve support, and you are not alone in this.

Whatever it showed, there is a door here for you.

The Tribe is a warm, honest place to belong, with no ads and nothing sold. Whether you feel steady or you feel alone tonight, you are welcome exactly as you are.

Read: the complete guide to loneliness and belonging

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